Some relief when you’re in pain

Some relief when you’re in pain

There’s a misguided critique I’ve often heard of great spiritual teachers. “If they were so evolved, why did they have a stroke or get cancer? Why’d she lose her eyesight? Or have migraines?”––as was the case with Krishnamurti, who used to holler from the pain of his headaches…

Life Update: Cohesion + Rebirth

Life Update: Cohesion + Rebirth

It’s been a while since I wrote a fresh update. I tend to stick to the how to’s and why what’s. Honestly, I think reporting on what’s been going on in my life isn’t my most useful offering. Which is why I will probably NEVER write a memoir. But when it’s all strung together, the last few months of my life might look like a teachable moment.

Time is not the healer. You are.

Time is not the healer. You are.

Contrary to popular belief, time is not the healer. We all know people who have gone decades holding a grudge. And we’ve all (hopefully) been blessed by someone who just chose to forgive and moved ON.
 
Love is a choice. And we can choose it any time.

Agreeing to Disagree? We can do better.

Agreeing to Disagree? We can do better.

Tolerance. Acceptance. Celebration. 3° of loving awareness that take us from slightly seething resentment… To an inner spaciousness that’s very kind. In other words… “agreeing to disagree” can either be total ego bullsh*t because we want to carry on with things, or it can be truly inclusive.